healing after trauma


Reader,

Living in the space of silence can be introspective but exhausting.

One of the major things I've learned in my healing from trauma is:

Your trauma doesn’t have to be a secret.

For years I never shared about my trauma until I realized in a workshop the power of vulnerably sharing. It no longer had the power it once had in my body or in my head.

Healing starts when we can find ways to express what’s still lingering in the background of our being. It requires us to get uncomfortable to grow and cope differently.

It requires pausing, reflecting and observing your patterns of behavior, who you are attracted to and for what reasons. Why do you keep repeating the same patterns? What are your automatic knee-jerk responses?

What are the ways of being in your life that still feel toxic, unhealthy, and counterproductive to what you truly want?

The way you live with your trauma can change.

A simple first step is acknowledging you experienced trauma. It is being a witness to how it's changed your life, your ways of being and your personality.

If you want more guidance on how to heal from trauma, I'm offering some spots open to work 1-on-1 in my mentoring program. It's a beautiful 6-month program where we work together to:

  • Heal and cope with triggers
  • Reframe stuck trains of thought
  • Shift old belief systems
  • Reconnect to your intuition
  • Receive spiritual guidance from ancestors

Check it out HERE.

I'd love to hear how this email inspires you and what comes up for you in your thoughts and body.

Hit REPLY and share if you feel like it.

Lots of love,

Emily

www.emilystroia.com

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